Sunday, March 23, 2008

While I'm online, blogging, and no one is bothering me....

...I'll keep going.
Caden was sick today. High fever and very lethargic. I hate it when my kids are sick (like all moms). Since he obviously wasn't going to church today, Soleil stayed home as well. I'm sad we didn't get an Easter picture of everyone dolled up in their new outfits, but maybe next week. Scott spoke in sac. mtg, and I didn't get to hear him. Hey - those who did hear him, how'd he do? After he spoke, we switched, he came home and I went to nursery. It was like a Children's Place fashion show in there. SO cute!
Caden and I took another trip to the e.r. this week. How many times can you take your child into the same e.r. before they start reporting you to Social Services? This is our second time. I was taking a plate out of the microwave when it slipped out of my hand, and came crashing down on his nose. Right between his eyes on the bridge of his nose. It was a bleeder. Poor guy! And oh, the Mom guilt!
Caden had to have the blanket wrapped around him at breakfast - not that he ate a single bite. Soleil polished off his pancake, and Caden went back to laying down. Poor guy. I really hope he's better tomorrow.

Here's Caden from a couple of weeks ago. He "dressed" himself for church. This is his cheese face - as in he says cheese until you take the picture. How cute is he??
Onto other completely different thoughts:
On a scale of 1-10, how cheesy is it to match your daughter? I don't have 2 girls to dress alike, and so to quench that matchy-match part of me, sometime I coordinate Soleil and I. Is that cheesy?
This is us in our should-have-been St. Patrick Day's dresses.

We aren't really matchy here, but it's a cute photo. I was trying to get a picture of her cute outfit, but you can't see any of the embellishments. It's all tulips. How spring-y! I love girl clothes!
And since I need to post a picture of Scott too....
"I'm so glad when Daddy comes home!"
Hope you all have a great week!

My Big Fat Jewish Wedding


(Please ignore my crazy eyes. We barely knew the guy who was nice enough to take our picture and email it us. I couldn't be picky and ask for a retake.)


It's official. Mormons do not know how to throw a wedding. How often do you attend a Mormon reception in the church gym (hey - if there is a basketball hoop overhead, it's a gym not a cultural hall), with half the male attendees in jeans, and eat green jello with a side of mints? Ok, so I'm stereotyping a bit. And I apologize if you did have your reception in the cultural hall. But after this last weekend, I think Scott and I are going to become Jewish. Or at least find some more Jewish friends. Cause this wedding ROCKED!!
It started on Friday night with the couple renting out a ritzy downtown Philadelphia steakhouse. Open bar and hor d'ourves (did you know that diet coke can look a little like wine when it's in a wineglass? the ice gives it away.) then onto the 3 hour dinner. It's been awhile since I've seen a lot of drunk people in action. Pretty funny.
The wedding was Saturday nite, so Scott and I had the day to roam downtown Philly - saw the Liberty Bell, Congress Hall, ate a cheesesteak, all the appropriate Philly tourist attractions. Did a little shopping too...of course.
Then it was wedding time! I am so desperately sad that we forgot our camera. The 2 pictures I have, one is from Scott's phone camera, the other from a guy we met at the wedding that was kind enough to take our pix and email it us. Love that digital age.
Anyways, the wedding was in the Grand Ballroom of a gorgeous Philly hotel. The flowers were beautiful. Gigantic. We are talking towers of flowers taller than I am. The Chuppha (wedding canopy) was beautiful. Didn't understand half of the ceremony, but it was fun and somber all at the same time. (Mine was just somber. So unlike my personality!)
Right after the wedding, it is tradition for the groom and bride to be alone for a time to embrace and savor the first few moments of being husband and wife (yuchud). What a fabulous tradition! While Adam and Julia were alone, the 400 wedding guests moved to 3 smaller ballrooms to enjoy the open drink bars, pasta bars, sushi bars, and meat bars. (multiple bars of each) We had a traveling band that walked through all the ballrooms to entertain us. Finally it was the reception. The hotel had quickly transformed the Grand Ballroom into a reception room - 35 tables, each one with a different, HUGE centerpiece, another live band, dance floor, more open bars, and my favorite, chocolate plates on each table. We ate and danced for the next 3 hours. We finally left at 12:30 am, dessert still hadn't been served (but I had done some damage on the chocolate plate), and everyone else was still going strong. (we had to get up early to drive back to Scott's parents for church) It was the first time I've gotten Scott out on the dance floor in 5 years - since our wedding luncheon. It was so much fun - although harder to dance in heels than I remember.

This is the couple being hoisted up on chairs and paraded around the dance floor. I'm sure you've seen it done in movies, etc. Except Adam is 6'5" and 275 pounds. You can see he's a bit lower than Julia. ;-> This is from the phone camera, but can you see the ballroom's ceiling? Crazy big!
It was a fun weekend. The kids were good for Grandma and Grandpa, which is important cause Grandma is coming out here in a month to babysit for our anniversary trip to Kauai. We are getting spoiled!! So does anyone have any suggestions for Kauai adventures? I'll start practicing my hula now.

Tuesday, March 11, 2008

A little ditty for Diane

First and foremost, a major thanks and "holla" to Diane for letting me borrow a bunch of stuff. I will be the belle of the ball, thanks to you! I have also been promising her the eclair cake recipe for way too long now. So here it is! It's so yummy; feel free to make it whenever. My only stipulation is that for any and all ward functions in which I am supposed to bring a dessert, I get dibbs on the eclair cake. Yes, it is that good!

Eclair Cake
2 small packages instant vanilla pudding
3 cups milk
12 oz. Cool Whip - thawed
Keebler Club crackers
1 container chocolate frosting

Whip pudding and let set for a few minutes. Add in Cool Whip. Layer Club crackers, then half pudding mixture, then another layer of crackers, then the rest of the pudding mixture and finish with a layer of crackers on top. (Do not forget the finish with crackers! The frosting won't adhere without them!) Cool overnight in fridge - or at least for a few hours - the top off with the chocolate frosting. Delicious!

Have a good one, everybody! See you on the flip side!

Monday, March 10, 2008

Tagged again

10 years ago I was: a junior in college, dating lots of boys ;->, having lots of fun. I think everyone should go away to college, for the very least of experiencing the fun social aspect in addition to gaining a higher education. (Of course!) I LOVED college...all 5 years of it! ;->

Things on my to-do list today: the laundry (check), exchange 2 pairs of Soleil's shoes I bought too small (check, and ended up buying more - ugh!), get Caden's hair cut (check - he's so cute), play outside and do a little gardening (check), get house cleaned (check, thanks to Ms. Recendic and friends), start packing (check), talk to girlfriends (check). Wow...I got a lot done today!

4 things I would do if I became a billionaire: invest, invest, invest....and pay off my mortgage. And all the other usual philanthropic donations - although I tend towards children's hospitals. Go St. Jude's!!

3 bad habits: Caffeine. I love to sleep too much. And shop too much. And eat too much...oh wait, how many habits?

5 jobs I have had: clothes retail, customer service and sales rep, photographer, sales account rep, MOM!!!

6 things people don't know about me: aren't I an open book?
1. I am extremely flexible. Without any sort of stretching, I can do the splits 3 different ways. Lucky Scott!
2. I LOVE the theatre. I will go to any show, any time, anywhere!
3. I play the piano. I will NOT play in church, so don't ask! I took lessons for over a decade, but it's been longer since I played consistently.
4. I love reading the smut magazines. So bad, so addicting. People, Star, In Touch. I don't buy them (well, hardly ever), but I still love reading them at the salon. 
5. I almost moved to London. I had my apartment packed up into a storage unit and was getting ready to go, without a job or place to live, when I got the unquestionable impression to move to SLC and live with my cousin. One of the first times I obeyed unquestioning....and met Scott 1 month later.
6. But I still want to live in London some day. Or any place Europe. One day.

I tag Jill, Cathy, Diane, and anyone else who wants to play!

Friday, March 7, 2008

25th Anniversary

Today is a bittersweet day for me. It is the 25th anniversary of my school bus accident. I was hit and ran over by my school bus when I was 5. Following is the newspaper article that ran 3 days later. I don't think it's too depressing, but read at your own caution.

"Bethel Hopes For A Little Sunshine"
"By telephone, the happy word spread from Country Road to Mitch Haven Drive to Braun Road: Sunshine could move her toes. 5-year-old Sunshine Osborne alighted from a Bethel Park school bus and started to cross Braun Road. The driver, unaware, started to pull away from the stop. She either stumbled or was knocked down by the bus, and the vehicle's wheels passed over her. The bus continued along Braun Road, the driver oblivious to what had happened.
Sunshine was admitted to Children's Hospital in serious condition. Monday evening she had no feeling or movement in her legs.
It was about 28 hours later that her stepfather, Greg Hulet, relayed the hopeful message.
"He called me and I kept the word going,"said Lee Jodoin of Mitch Haven Drive. "Soon, we were all smiling." Mrs. Jodoin said Sunshine is as her name implies - "just bubbly and sunny and friendly to everybody. That's why the whole neighborhood's upset."
Though she moved to Bethel Park with her parents from Idaho Falls, Idaho, only last May, Sunshine, her pixie-like quality enhanced by dark blue eyes and blond hair which falls on her shoulders, became the object of special affection from neighbors and parents of her classmates.
Police Chief Joseph Kletch of Bethel Park said the bus driver, whom he declined to identify, didn't learn of the accident until he returned to the bus garage 90 minutes later and was met by police.
There were a final few articles to check out in the investigation, Kletch said, but "to this point, we find no real negligence on the part of the driver and anticipate no filing of charges."
An irony to the near-tragedy is that the driver - Mrs. Hulet and other parents say his name is Bill - has befriended nearly every one of the children he transports, calling each by name.
"Bill called this morning and said how sorry he was that it happened," she said. "He said how fond he was of her..."
"Bill has a little grandson in California who has cancer and has been in intensive care all week. Being close to the children who ride his bus kind of makes up for his grandchildren being so far away."
Kletch said the driver "seems to be a very personable man who gets involved with the children and makes their ride to and from school enjoyable, which is important, when it involves 5-year-olds like Sunshine."
He said the driver waved to the children who stayed on the side of the street on which they got off, tooted goodbye on the horn and pulled out.
Mrs. Hulet said Sunshine apparently dropped her umbrella as she was about to clear the front of the bus.
"Only two other kids crossed with her, her friend Erin Poses, and a little boy who's in the second grade, I think. The way I understand it, he (the driver) looked to wave to those who didn't cross and didn't see Sunshine."
"Sunshine's friend, Karen Jodoin, was seated at the back of the bus and felt a bump and looked out the window and saw Sunshine lying on the ground. She said Erin was waving her hands for another car coming along to stop."
The accident occurred in front of the home of Peter and Robin Poses, parents of Erin, on Braun Road.
"Sunshine comes to our house on Mondays to play with Erin until her mother gets home from work," Mrs. Poses said.
Mrs. Poses said Erin "isn't saying too much about it. I'm not even sure she saw it. I found her crying in her room last night but she doesn't care to discuss it."
Mrs. Jodoin said for Karen, the incident was "like an adventure to her, everyone asking her to tell what happened. I think she really thought Sunshine had just fallen down.
"When she looked out the bus window, she couldn't really see it was Sunshine, but knew it was her from her yellow book bag on the ground.
"But when she heard yesterday that she was getting a little better, Karen was really happy."
Dr. Edwin Merritt, superintendent of Bethel Park schools, said a close watch is being kept on Sunshine's classmates for any adverse psychological reactions to the accident.
"We've been in touch with all the parents and have asked them to stay in touch with us should they observe any problems," he said."
He said all aspects of bus safety training, both from the drivers' and students' standpoint, "are getting an exhaustive look."
Mrs. Poses said that residents along Braun have been "fighting" to have a school crossing guard placed at the stop, as well as the next one, where Mitch Haven Drive runs into Braun.
The speed limit on Braun is 35 mph, and she said she has seen cars on many occasions "drive right by a (stopped) school bus. And we have so many buses that use Braun - from St. Louise de Marillac, St. Valentine's and all the Bethel Park schools.
"But I certainly wouldn't say that a school guard could have prevented what happened to Sunshine."
However, Kletch said that Sgt. Lois Heckman, who has been in charge of crossing guards for years, does not recall any request for a crossing guard for either location.
"When a request is made, a full evaluation is made of the situation, including a traffic survey. If the situation warrants a school guard, one is placed, "Kletch said.
Hulet, a Westinghouse Electric Corp. engineer who was transferred to Bettis Atomic Power Lab in West Mifflin, said the move was temporary and family will soon return to Idaho.
Doctors "really, really don't know" why Sunshine lost the movement of her legs, he said.
"The X-rays showed micro-cracks in four vertebrae, but the problem would come from the higher part of the spine, where the controls for her legs would be," he said, repeating a doctor's theory.
"But when she was being moved in her bed yesterday (Tuesday) she could move her toes one at a time. She had control of that. But there was severe pain with it and she didn't want to do that."
But that she did do it has brought smiles and hope all along Country and Mitch Haven and Braun Road."
These photos aren't in recovery order...sorry. And remember, this is 1983.
This is my physical therapist trying to teach me how to walk again. I still have that little walker!
I had a body cast on for weeks (from my chest to my knees). I think this photo was taken soon after getting that stupid cast off. Can you say whole body itch??
(Ballerina till the end! Notice the ballet slippers!)
Lying in a bed for weeks gets boring when you are 5, especially when Popeye cartoons start repeating.
On a cruise around the hospital. I loved getting out of my hospital room, as long as it wasn't going to physical therapy!
The ballet slippers are still on! HA!
Since I'm 2 Blessings behind in my 52 Blessings Project, this week and last week's Blessings are my able body. I think that counts as 2!! As much as I complain about how my body looks, I am SO thankful that I made a full recovery and regained complete control of my body. I can deal with the left-over problems I have. The doctors didn't know if I would ever be able to walk again, so I DANCED instead! Seriously, if you tell me I can't do something, I fixate on it until I finally have to just do it. Sometimes it's a good thing (like helping the full recovery) but mostly it's not. Oh well. I'm gonna go turn up the music and dance now.